Ravish Your Partner in 3 Sexy Steps

Are you in a relationship rut? Things are “fine”, you’re not fighting, you talk every day, but where is the spark? It’s time for some action and some fun. Get that flame burning and schedule some hot dates with your partner.
Here are my 3 Sexy Steps to have a red-hot relationship:
1. Adorn Yourself Like a Goddess- How would you dress if you were meeting the Divine today? This reminds you that you are a luscious Goddess (who happens to drive carpool). When was the last time you took extra special care of yourself just for your partner? I’m not talking about going out anywhere; I’m talking about a regular day where you make yourself look beautiful in every way. Do your hair, use your best make-up and put on a great outfit – no sweats allowed! Beautiful clothes can put you in the mood, dissolves neediness and enhances self confidence…in all your glory and gorgeousness, watch him be attracted to your radiance.
2. Bust a Move- Once the kids are at school or in bed, let go of stress, move your hips wider than you normally do, breathe into all tight or anxious areas, forehead, shoulders, stomach, even your “Perma-Kegal” (if you’re like me), find some super sexy music…then dance for him! I don’t care what you groove to; Barry White, Lady Gaga, Christina Aguilera – just something that makes you radiate sexiness. This way you won’t need his attention to feel beautiful which creates the space for him to shower you with attention. He’ll love this gift, and it’ll rev both your engines.
3. 9 ½ Weeks-If you haven’t seen this movie, you must add it to your Netflix cue. There are some hot lessons to learn from this flick. One of the best scenes was in the kitchen where Mickey Rourke (when he was sexy) and Kim Basinger feed each other – so hot! Being sexy is really about living life sensually, taking time to be present to all your senses…so take a lesson from 9 ½ weeks and feed him by hand, choose exotic savory exquisite smelling foods or simply make his favorite meal. You could also be the one to turn him on by eating something very sensually like a chocolate covered strawberry – do it in a way that would embarrass his friends. Another film to inspire you; Dangerous Beauty – Jacqueline Bisset eating an asparagus – you can learn a trick or two from her 😉
Just writing this blog got me inspired, so I’m off to do some dancing and have some champagne and strawberries. Now it’s your turn, focus on your sensuality and that flame will be so hot, the two of you will be like teenagers all over again. Have fun!>