Kenya K. Stevens

Kenya K. Stevens


Holy shit, I lost my shit. Cried. Wow. I’ve been so triggered recently and I’ve been praying for support. Kenya takes couples from monogamy to polyamory. I’m most certainly not ready for that or interested whatsoever… yet damn I’m ready to heal feeling not good enough/jealous. I didn’t get the solution to this in our interview per say, yet I am curious about how this woman has embodied the ability to what seems like compartmentalize with and open heart her lover, her husband, both in the same home, thriving in her business and alive in her essence. AND what impacted me the most was it took her 12 years in her marriage to feel safe. It’s OK if after 4 months I still don’t feel safe. And safety is required to even TALK about poly. So while I’m a master in many areas, it’s humbling to know I have a brand new revealed wound to heal that has never surfaced until I really really cared about someone. Thank you for your grace as you witness my wobbly in this… good on me for already having many tools/processes she speaks of to support myself through this… and good on her for being such a bold stand for her truth and so passionate in helping couples thrive. My ego is dying…. home even MORE to my deepest spiritual nature. Would love to hear your thoughts and feelings about this conversation. Whew.


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Meet Kenya

Kenya K. Stevens is a relationships expert, love coach, best-selling author, wife, and mother of three. Kenya attended Howard University in Washington D.C. where she graduated in 1997 with a degree in Education/ Child Psychology. Not only did she scoop up a degree, but she also met and married a fellow Howard student Carl Stevens. They now live in the mountains of North Carolina raising three children. Together, for the past 12 years this power couple has built JujuMama LLC, now known as Progressive Love Academy into a worldwide love coaching conglomerate and online Love Academy. Progressive Love Academy has certified over 150 love coaches and tantra practitioners. Beyond her college degrees, Kenya is formally trained and has practiced yoga, breathing, meditation, tantra, ancient spiritual systems and metaphysical thought since the age of 21. Kenya K Stevens wrote her first book in 2008 – Change Your Man – a sister volume to her husband’s book – Tame Your Woman . Their latest offering is the penning of one of the greatest communication tools on the planet, UPLVL Communication: The Ultimate Solution to Save Relationships and Eliminate Hurtful, Damaging, and Meaningless Arguments. She and her husband, Carl Stevens have since been featured in EBONY Magazine, The Mo’Nique Show, The Michael Baisden Show, Fox News, Dr. Phil Show, Slut Walk, and over 100 Talk Radio and television shows. Creator of The 30 Minute Orgasm™, Gender Harmonics™, UPLVL Communication™, iTantra™ and the Three Way Mirror™ Process for couples and individuals. The Progressive Love evolutionary message continues to uplift thousands daily through their social media platforms and academy membership!

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