S13 | Intimate Conversations: How to Evolve from RoleMate to SoulMate with Dr Warren Farrell
Oh my God this man is my hero. I'm still stunned by his extraordinary depth, insights, wisdom, generosity and tearful smiling love for his wife.
What a privilege and blessing to dive deep into what it truly takes to go beyond defensiveness and create conversations that deepen love when consistent criticism can often lead to divorce.
And this still pinching myself conversation, which I would be happy to have for an entire weekend long, we also discussed...
The healing power of 'sharing and caring' sessions to shift people from surviving to thriving and support them in creating a 'conflict free zone' relationship
How when you know you're going to have a 'sharing and caring' conversation, how anger, violence, yelling and sarcasm diminish because you know you're going to be heard
How it's biologically unnatural to receive criticism without defensiveness yet openness and connection can be learned and more importantly practiced to turn almost any relationship around
How underneath anger is vulnerability and how overtime through practice responding with compassion and focusing on appreciation, you can learn to hear behind the cranky words to the heart's unmet needs behind it
I shared how I still haven't been able to get through listening to the Boy Crisis Book because it triggers so much about my own personal situation. Warren invited a follow-up call about this with me, I was floored, humbly grateful, prayers answered in such an unexpected way
He supported my own coaching practice by teaching me that young adults on antidepressants have often not been taught boundaries, limits or delayed gratification. The mothers on antidepressants often feel like a failure when the children don't respect them
We teased about instead of creating work-life balance, he and his wife Liz create work-work balance! One of his latest sharing and caring sessions with her was about taking 3 months off a year!
And as the Divine would have it, we were able to invite her on the After the Show segment on Patreon... there wasn't a dry eye in the house.
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ABOUT WARREN FARRELL:
Warren Farrell, PhD, named one of the world’s top 100 thought leaders by the Financial Times, is the author of books published in 19 languages, including the New York Times bestseller Why Men Are the Way They Are and the international bestseller The Myth of Male Power.
He has presented The Boy Crisis (2018) globally—from the White House to the Norwegian Parliament—sparking bipartisan legislation in Florida to support father involvement. He is currently working on The Man Crisis.
His latest book, Role Mate to Soul Mate (2024), draws on 30 years of teaching communication to over a thousand couples and psychologists.
A pioneer in both the women’s movement (elected three times to the National Organization for Women’s NYC board) and men’s movement (dubbed by GQ as “The Martin Luther King of the men’s movement”), he promotes a “Gender Liberation Movement” to free both sexes from rigid roles.
His advocacy for boys and men is explored in the 2025 documentary The Boy Crisis: Cancel Warren Farrell, nominated for “Best Documentary” by the Idyllwild Film Festival.
Dr. Farrell has been interviewed by Oprah, Barbara Walters, Tucker Carlson, Jordan Peterson, and others, and featured in The New York Times and global media. He lives in Mill Valley, California, with his wife and is online at warrenfarrell.com
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