Dealing With Female Mood Swings
The other day, my partner's mood changed drastically. It happened instantly and for no apparent reason. When I asked why her mood changed so much, she replied that she didn't want to talk about it. This made me feel insecure and unsettled. Here's my question: to what extent is it my responsibility to "back off" when my partner wishes to not share her feelings, and to what extent is it her responsibility to let me know why her entire attitude has just changed?
Answer: My dear friend... welcome to a woman's emotional storm! Yes, sometimes we are like a calm ocean with hardly a wave... other times we are a tsunami! Like the weather, sometimes we are a clear blue day, other times rainy, windy or storming. However it's not just you that has trouble dealing with our emotional storms... Sometimes WE ourselves have trouble dealing with our own emotions and either stuff them down or project them onto others.