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Friend, Lover, Married! Help!

Question:  I have a guy friend that is my best friend. And he’s having a rocky relationship in his marriage…we have gotten together. I have been single for nine years. How can I be nice and just let it go? I keep communicating this with him and he’s not listening!!  Read More →

My Husband Wants A Divorce – I don’t!

Question: My husband wants a divorce and I don’t. My parents were divorced and I swore if I ever got married, I would make it last. This would destroy me. We don’t have any kids so he has no reason to stay. How do I make him understand that we need to stay together? How do I get him to remember why he fell in love with me in the first place?

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How do I know if he has fallen out of love with me?

You asked, “Allana, how do I know if he has fallen out of love with me?”

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How to Stop Beating Yourself Up

Question: Allana, the other day you posted about self denial. How do you heal from this when your self denial caused a break up with a person you actually wanted to be with, and want to get back in your life? Read More →

Friend, Lover, Married! Help!

Question:  I have a guy friend that is my best friend. And he’s having a rocky relationship in his marriage…we have gotten together. I have been single for nine years. How can I be nice and just let it go? I keep communicating this with him and he’s not listening!!  Read More →

Do women only want guys with money?

Question: Do women only want guys with money?I love this question.

To me, its like saying, Do women only want guys with penises? Or, do women only want guys who honor them?  Of course we want a man who’s money is handled!
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