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Wife Won’t Slow Down

Q: My wife keeps having health issues because she just won’t slow down. Between issues with her heart, issues with her eyes, and who knows what else – she is falling apart. I want to help her and I try to be there for her but I don’t know how to get her to put on the brakes. She is insanely left-brain so I can’t present an argument that she can’t logically argue her way out of except the generic “I love you and I want you to be healthy.” That one she does respect and takes a step back for a second but then she starts up again. I don’t want her to end up in the hospital. Help! Read More →

Wife Stopped Caring – Time to Misbehave

Q: My wife has completely stopped caring about her appearance, about our sex life, pretty much about our entire relationship. There is a woman at work that is coming on a little strong. Is it wrong for me to just go for it?

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Wife and I No Longer Share a Bed

Q: Allana, I am worried.  My wife and I are no longer sharing a bed.  She told me that it was because she was having trouble sleeping. The thing is, we have always shared a bed! Am I missing a red flag? Is something wrong?

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No Money Talk!

Q: My husband and I differ completely when it comes to money. He wants to talk about it and I don’t! I have heard the number one fight between couples is money. How do I get him to understand we don’t share the same views.

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Can’t Communicate With Husband

Q: My husband and I have two different styles of communicating and fight all the time. How do we skip the frustration and learn to just talk to each other?

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Need Space From Mother-in-Law

Q: My wife’s mother won’t give us space! When she comes to visit, she doesn’t know how to go home. My wife enjoys her visits but I want my house back! There is no way to win here so I am mostly venting to you Allana; but, if you know something I don’t – please tell me!

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