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Unacquainted Love for 15 Years. Time to Let Go?

Q: 39 year old female here with a question for you Allana. I have been in love with my business partner since the day we met. He’s single but has always expressed that he only wants to be committed to his business and his career. We have been working side by side for 15 years now and we fight like an old married couple. There was one night where I thought we were gonna cross the line to something more but the phone rang and by the time he got back he was so frustrated from the call he just said “Good Night” and left. Nothing since. I never brought it up again but I always wondered what could have or would have been if that stupid phone hadn’t rang! I will be 40 next month. I don’t want to keep waiting and dreaming of what could be but I don’t want to destroy our working relationship either. Which one do I choose, business or pleasure? Read More →

Why Do I Want Women I Know I Can’t Have?

She is a 10 in every way.  She is gorgeous, she is smart, she is perfection, she is WAY out of your league!  Or is she?  You believe you are chasing women that are “unattainable” but is that what is really going on?  Is she only unattainable because you have made her that way?

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