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Accepting that I Will Always Be Single

Q:  I’m a 39 year old male from the UK who has never really had a break with women. In fact, the last girlfriend I had was when I was 23. I’ve come to the conclusion that it’s just not meant to be after my lack of any relationship took me down the path of a suicide attempt and complete breakdown back in 2012. I got counseling for this in 2013 and have been getting by ever since on my own but being single still hurts me nearly every day. I’m worried that it may drive me back towards how I felt in 2012 and having seen some of your videos, you give some really good advice. Could you please give me some pointers on how I might alter my approach to understanding that I won’t meet anyone and have to deal with that, so that I might come to terms with the situation? Most people tell me it’ll happen eventually but it’s now been 16 years that I’ve been single and I would rather just learn how to come to terms with it.

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Want to Check On My Ex? Good Idea?

Q: Allana, is it acceptable to check in on your ex after some time apart.  You see, things didn’t end well with my ex-boyfriend and I worry about him but I don’t want to reopen old wounds or give him a false sense of hope by seeing if he is ok.  Should I leave this well enough alone?

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Don’t Make Me Have Sex With My Husband!


Question: I’m turned off by my husband and I’m not sure why. I just don’t really have a desire to have sex with him, although I love him dearly and he’s very good to me. What’s wrong with me? What I can do to turn this around?

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Intimate Conversations Live with Anthony Ogley

The interview between this week’s Intimate Conversations LIVE guest, Anthony Ogley, and I is bound to be delicious. It’s bound to go where no man or woman has gone before. I can already tell! And I’m so grateful that someone is so willing to be as ALIVE as Anthony is, it’s wild. I love him already. It’s so amazing to me to think that here I am in in LA talking to someone, who is all the way in London yet about something that is so alive within both of us. And also within you.

Anthony Ogley is a Transformational Guide, Storyteller, Holistic Soul Coach, Workshop Facilitator and Tantsu bodywork practitioner from London. (I love his accent, his charm and depth!)

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