You asked Coach Allana Pratt: “Should I feel guilty that I feel resentful, frustrated, and down right bitter because I am the one that ALWAYS has to make the first move, ALWAYS has to approach, and do the asking out? Am I the only man that doesn’t enjoy this? Why are men lead to believe that we should enjoy and embrace this role in dating?
A: Your feelings are completely valid and I am honor the truthfulness of your question. Vulnerability and openness is incredibly sexy – bitter, resentful, frustrated – not so much. The first step is healing the resentfulness as this is going to act as a magnet, causing you to attract women that only validate this feeling.
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