Tired of Being One Upped By My Boyfriend

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Question: I’m not in a relationship, I am in a competition!  My boyfriend feels the need to one-up me on everything I say and do.  If I am sick, he is dying.  If I am tired, he is exhausted.  If I want to share good news, he has to share his life changing news!  I am just so tired of being in the shadow and having to pat him on the back to make him feel good.

Answer: My dear sweet love, I am so sorry.  You sound so incredibly frustrated and I hear you and understand why.  Everyone needs their space, needs to be received, allowed to be present, valued, heard, and you only being made to feel inferior and less valued.  I want to be straight with about a few things.

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