Tired of Being One Upped By My Boyfriend

Tired of Being One Upped By My Boyfriend

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Question: I’m not in a relationship, I am in a competition! My boyfriend feels the need to one-up me on everything I say and do. If I am sick, he is dying. If I am tired, he is exhausted. If I want to share good news, he has to share his life changing news! I am just so tired of being in the shadow and having to pat him on the back to make him feel good.

Answer: My dear sweet love, I am so sorry. You sound so incredibly frustrated and I hear you and understand why. Everyone needs their space, needs to be received, allowed to be present, valued, heard, and you only being made to feel inferior and less valued. I want to be straight with about a few things.
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