Tired of Babying My Husband
Q: My husband knows very little about woman. Actually he knows nothing about women. His father wasn’t present and he has only had one other girlfriend. This constantly creates a huge issue in terms of our communication. He doesn’t seem to be able to read me or my mood. He doesn’t know how to make me feel like a woman: special, unique, a priority. I don’t expect him to read my mind but I don’t feel like constantly telling him what’s going on or what he needs to do. I’m babying him.
A: Yes, I get that you are! This can’t be fun for either of you. Ok first – your frustration, valid. Anger, total valid; however, you are starting to be mean, judgmental, hostile. There is no way we are going to get a guy to show up when it is unsafe, when we emasculate them. This is such a lesson for you to be the invitation. To be in acceptance of it (rather than judgment), will allow him to grow, flourish, and evolve.
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