So Angry That I've Never Had a Girlfriend
Q: Why should a man never feel too old to get a girlfriend? It pisses me off when people say “it’s never too late” because I can not get over never having a girlfriend in my life.
A: First off, I’m sorry you never had a girlfriend earlier in your life and there’s a lot of things I never had either. When we make ourselves wrong for the past, we blame others or we blame ourselves. We stick ourselves back there, so we are not even present for the present moment and we can not create a future. Normally, it is because we don’t want to take responsibility for something we did or did not do. We’d rather just not feel it, not deal with it, etc.
Here is the question I am going to ask you to ask yourself 10 times: “What’s right about me not having a girlfriend when I was younger?” If you can’t get there – email email@example.com and sign up for a strategy session, because that means there is a wound that we need to heal so that we can actually move into gratitude, forgiveness of you, forgiveness of whatever women didn’t say yes, etc. When you can do that, you will be one big open vessel to bring in the most delicious life of your choice.
Thank you for your question!
All my love,