Regret My Marriage. Now She's Pregnant
Q: My crazy story is about me marrying an older woman who used to be my teacher from school. I regret it now since we got married so quickly in a cheap chapel, back in October. Our relationship was just sexual and marrying her was just for the sex. I know it was a dumb move but after the marriage, we kinda argued a lot but then ended up having sex after but I think she got pregnant during angry sex. I really wanted to divorce her before she told me that she was pregnant but now I’m waiting for my child to be born soon but I feel like I’m just with my wife now for the child. Look at the age difference! I’ve ruined my life just to enjoy casual sex with my ex-teacher. She’s 39 and I’m 28. Isn’t this crazy.
A: Ok, let’s move forward and accept the “crazy” decisions we make in our lives. We all do “unconscious” things to meet that void in our heart, feel safe, feel secure, feel accepted, have great sex. I need you to love yourself, forgive yourself, and take full ownership of what you have done, full responsibility, no blame. Can we choose again? What can you be now? Blaming yourself isn’t going to work, so please stop. Blaming your wife isn’t going to work, so please stop. You have a beautiful child coming into this world that you have both created. Start asking yourself, “What is it going to take for this to work?”
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