Husband Wants To Enter Dangerous Line of Work

Husband Wants To Enter Dangerous Line of Work

Q: How do I make the fighting stop? My husband wants to enter a dangerous line of work and I refuse to agree with it. He argues that he wants to support our family and feels as if this is his only option. He keeps accusing me of standing in the way. I told him if he was to pursue it, I wanted nothing to do with it or him. I just can’t see a way to compromise with him and I don’t want to lose him. Please help!

A: First, you are both adults. To tell a man what he can or can not do (in terms of his calling) when his objective is to support his family, is emasculating to him. In terms of his calling, I personally would not tell him what to do – it is his choice; however, your fear is TOTALLY warranted! Yes, I believe you should support him and his calling but I do believe the communication between the two of you needs to shift from opposition to allowance. What would that conversation look like? What if he could truly understand how terrified you are and what if you could truly understand that this is what he chooses to do to provide for his family?
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