Joli Hamilton

Joli Hamilton


God, I have such an instant resonance with this woman, just like when I had the honor and privilege of being on her project relationship Podcast. She’s deep and brilliant and brave and vulnerable. We spoke of consensual non-monogamy. We spoke a very practical nuts and bolts and agreements that couples make. And we spoke of the gifts of jealousy to honor and not judge within ourselves, jealousy as an invitation to focus back on the relationship and to focus on our own beloved self… jealousy as a catalyst for evolution because we do care so deeply about another. We spoke of giving ourselves permission to dream, imagine and have fantasies and explore before we take actions and create new agreements. We spoke of embracing the ‘full catastrophe’ and the messiness of life. We spoke of having joy for your partner’s joys and what would it take to truly have joy for your partner’s giddiness of meeting someone new… and compassion for when their heart is hurt. We spoke of remembering that we get to negotiate as an adult when we first come home to the fullness of ourselves and our truth. Intense, beautiful, intimate… And what may happen on many Intimate Conversations yet is rarely verbalized… That we both grew in the re-sharing of our truth and stories 🙂 Exquisite.


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Meet Joli

Dr. Joli Hamilton is the relationship coach for couples who color outside the lines. She is a research psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and AASECT (pronounced ay-sect) certified sex educator. Joli also co-hosts the Project Relationship podcast with her anchor partner, Ken. She has spent the past two decades studying and reimagining what love can be if we open our imaginations to possibility. Joli helps people create non-monogamous partnerships that are custom-built for their authentic selves, no more shrinking, pretending, or hiding required.








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