Transition from Dating to Casual Partners

Q: My boyfriend and I are terrible as a couple.  We have nothing in common, we are completely different people, I don’t even know how we began dating.  The problem is – we are great together in bed! The sex is AMAZING!  Is it possible to tell your boyfriend that you would rather be sex buddies than a couple?

A: Yes, but very carefully. The rule of thumb is always error on the side of kindness, respect, and honor.  He may hear you and completely agree, relieved that you were the first to bring it up.  He may also hear you and be devastated as he has given his heart to you.  Talk with him, hear him, give him judgment free space, and if you still differ in the desired outcome, release him.

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