The Spark Is Dying

At the beginning, you couldn’t keep your hands off each other.  Every moment was bliss, every conversation was greeted by a sunrise, you had so much in common, so much to share.  Suddenly, you feel a gap growing between you, your energy is still high but you notice hers starting to wean.  Is she losing interest?

First, if you think she is losing interest in you, you will begin to convince yourself it is because “of” you, and you will stop being you!  You will start to be anything and everything you believe she wants you to be and by doing so, will push her away. Say this with me “It is ok if it doesn’t work out.”  Breathe.  Now repeat.

To see my full response, check out the full article on The Good Men Project, right HERE. As their newest columnist, you can continue to find amazing articles likes this and more so continue to check out my column Awaken Your Badass Nobility. You can many of my Q&A videos on YouTube, so please be sure to subscribe to my channel!

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