Not Ready For Kids…Yet
Q: My wife has gone from being indifferent about kids to telling people we don’t have any…yet. What does this mean? I have always been open-minded to the idea but I don’t even know one way or the other if I truly want to be a Dad. How do I talk to her about this?
A: Love, are you afraid that she is telling people “not yet” because she wants children and you are not sure OR that she doesn’t want children and you hadn’t made up your mind (even though she has). I wouldn’t jump from 1 to 10 just yet. There is space to connect and clear the air to understand each other’s true thoughts and feelings.
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