Me or The Job?

Q: My fiance and I have started planning our lives here in Austin; however, she has scored an amazing job and without talking to me – accepted it.  Now she is expecting us to move to Chicago.  Do I have the right to make her choose between me or the job?

A: I hear you love.  It feels like your entire world has been turned upside down, like the rug has been pulled from underneath you and you don’t know where you are going to land.  The question you have to ask yourself – is this a deal breaker?  Are your friends, family, life in Austin more important than the woman you are going to marry?  If so, set her free. If not, it is time to have a talk.

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