Help! I am Self-Sabotaging My Love Life!

In the words of Adele – “They say times supposed to heal ya, but ain’t done much healing.”  Five years.  Five years have passed and it still stings.  The wound is still fresh and won’t repair itself.  Every time you close you eyes it feels as if it happening all over again.  Each step forward is met with two steps back.  So how do you move on?

The idea of self-sabotaging when you haven’t fully healed is real and very much expected.  You won’t believe you deserve happiness, you won’t believe you can move forward.  Your mind will control your actions which will indirectly prevent you from finding your happiness.  I am over-joyous that you are willing to accept this challenge and show up.  Own it and work to change it.

To see my full response, check out the full article on The Good Men Project, right HERE. As their newest columnist, you can continue to find amazing articles likes this and more so continue to check out my column Awaken Your Badass Nobility. You can many of my Q&A videos on YouTube, so please be sure to subscribe to my channel!

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