Avoiding An Exclusive Relationship
Q: My girlfriend just broke up with me because she doesn’t want to be in a committed relationship. She said she could see herself settling down with me in 4 to 5 years, but right now she (22) wants to be free. Why waste the next 4 years of my life to see if she would consider me down the road. Why can’t she just commit now?
A: It sounds as if your heart has been shattered into a million pieces, yet? It is so difficult to understand how two people can love each other but not want to be together. Yes, I have seen couples who have been together since they were teenagers but these people are the minority. The decision she is making is based on how she views her present and future, you wouldn’t want to be her regret.
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