Q: 11 years of marriage and my wife is still uncomfortable if I try to be affectionate! I knew she was this way when we were dating but I guess I thought she would change over time.
A: First, congratulations on 11 beautiful years of marriage! I applaud your allowance, patience, and acceptance of who she is, her comfort level, and how it may impact your needs. Now, the true question is – how much have you sacrificed to allow her this space? Are your needs being met? Have you ever discussed her reasoning for this discomfort?
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