You're NOT ALLOWED to be more sexy, radiant and confident in 2013. Sorry…

You're NOT ALLOWED to be more sexy, radiant and confident in 2013. Sorry…

Someone asked me the other day if I was willing to have more joy, be fully ME, unapologetically alive, wealthy, in the flow. I actually hesitated. Like choosing it was somehow an impossibility or I might fail so why try…. then they told me, never mind… you’re NOT ALLOWED.
This immediately miffed me! And this power welled up in me to say… YES Dammit! I chose that! Whatever it takes!
They said, phew… good. Now let’s get to work.
In my world, some women say they want to be more sexy, radiant, confident… to have more joy, get the guy, expand their business…. they when I say spend less than a pair of shoes a month and have it all… they say, I’ll think about it…
So fine! You’re not allowed to be more sexy, radiant or confident! You’re not allowed to have more joy. Sorry, no guy for you. Sorry, good luck expanding your business…it’ll never happen.
Doesn’t that piss you off in a good way? GOOD! Use that energy to inspire action in the direction of your dreams!
So here are 6 reasons to confirm you’ve made a great decision to join my Redefining Sexuality Membership right away…
1. Are you feeling sexy in your clothes, in your skin, in your being?
This is your birthright. Most of us begin the attack on self-first thing in the morning, looking in the mirror, getting dressed… by the time we walk out the door we’ve mutilated our self-respect. What’s great is that the women on the two Live calls each month often show up tired, exhausted, spinning, insecure, trying to figure things out themselves, yet I quickly take them through potent processes and ask effective questions that shift their energy, clear up what’s blocking them, reconnects them to their power, with an ease that’s available when you’re in your feminine intuitive flow. Ready to create a world of honoring you as Beauty Herself? Talk about feeling unstoppable.
2. Are you shining radiantly in love with exactly who you are?
The quality that turns heads when a woman walks in a room is not her push up bra or hair do, it’s who she’s being. People can literally FEEL her walk in and they turn around to witness a woman at peace with her, with the moment AND deliciously open to what fabulous experience is about to happen. That takes trust in self, in life, that no matter what happens, you are OK… when that happens, you have access to this luscious “Dare you” energy, with a smile in your eye… welcoming life, savoring all that’s possible. Members report that they ‘entrain’ into my energy by simply listening to the interviews of me or me interviewing other experts… hang around women who honor, celebrate and adore being sensual confident supportive women, and you can’t help but BE that too. Totally sexy. With ease.
3. Are you feeling confident & in action creating the life you choose?
As women, if we doubt ourselves, demean our greatness, compare and compete with other women, hide or overcompensate our sexual energy, be anything other than our authentic selves, we don’t trust our worth. When we don’t trust our worth, we don’t value ourselves and then neither can anyone else… thus when we try to improve our relationships, try to date, try to book the next client… there is this unspoken lack of worth that’s in the space and people won’t honor you, for at the core you aren’t honoring you. Did that make sense? It means all the power and possibilities reside in how you treat yourself. On the Live Calls, I treat you with more honoring respect, unconditional love, fierce truth and tender wisdom than perhaps anyone else has in a long while… and from there with my honoring of you… and YOUR honoring of you…you can create the relationships and life you choose, with lusciousness and yummy fun!
4. Are you enjoying plenty of attention & affection dating or in your relationship?
I used to define my sense of worth by how much attention I could get. Empty on the inside, manipulating to get attention from the outside. Exhausting and honestly offensive for my energy was one of insecurity and victim. I didn’t WANT to be insecure; I was just lonely and empty. When I began to do the processes I give you in the videos, guided meditations, Live coaching calls etc. in the Membership, I began to BE full from the inside out. Thus I was experiencing feeling adored from the inside out. It was like I stopped needing attention and instead chose it, welcomed it, invited it from overflowing deliciousness and men were attracted to me like bees to honey! And I didn’t even need it! Yet I loved it!!
5. Are you gratefully allowing of powerful feminine support & celebration of you, no matter what the rest of the world says about you?
Here is a huge key to not only attracting a great man, keeping a great man and also expanding with freshness year after year: having people’s opinions of you, not affect you. Like water off a ducks back. How many of us have lost our mojo when a man didn’t call us back, dumped us, cheated on us? Said we looked bad in those jeans (even though we asked him if we looked fat!). These are events that most of us choose to close our hearts about to protect us from having it ever happen again. In so doing, we actually shut ourselves away from men, but also from women! From sunshine! From miracles! In the Membership, it’s a safe place to open up again, with sisters who support one another while you dissolve the barriers to your core heart, where you are SO self-loving that anyone’s opinion of you no longer matters! A woman who is BOTH totally heart open AND doesn’t let other’s opinions stop her… is attractive to a man to BOTH want to sleep with you AND marry you! OMG really? Yes. Both are necessary for him to be attracted to you immediately (date) and over time (marriage). I created Redefining Sexuality to support you in developing this capacity! YUM!
6. Are you at peace with intimacy and all aspects of having sex as the fullness of YOU? It’s sensual, kinky, naughty, elegant, sacred, sweet, saucy, sultry, bold, devotional flavors and more?
This is huge. Huge to HAVE and also a journey to HAVE. Most of us have judgments about some form of our sacred sexuality, and it gets in the way of attracting, keeping and deepening intimate relationships. You see, wherever YOU judge yourself, you hide, give your power away and/or attract that same judgment from a man or other women… compounding the judgment and the issue until the sense is that you lose yourself, lose your mojo, lose your identity. Thus the videos, guided meditations and LIVE calls deal with this in a tender, caring, safe, honoring, potent and life altering way. Can you imagine what it’s like to wake up and no longer judge yourself sexually, no longer judge your body, no longer hide any part of the magnificent you? And can you imagine how friggen’ HOT you become to your partner or potential partner? And how approachable you are to solid nourishing sisterhood? How does it get more fabulous than that?
Well it does… each month it really does get better and better… join me, join us.
Give yourself the gift this Holiday and New Years to have YOU, all of YOU and from there have EVERYTHING you dream of. Join others just like you, and experience all these benefits and more by joining Redefining Sexuality.
Adore you! Allana
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