Surviving and Thriving Through Betrayal
This is an email from a woman in my community who emailed me about the success
she experienced from my book How To Be And Stay Sexy.
Quite often my books are helpful, my membership powerful, yet there often is one
nagging issue, some area of blindness that we need a private session to finally shift.
“Hello my beautiful friend … I am home in UK … its so sad. I was being bullied by the
Dr on board!! [She is an RN on a ship] Now I’m home on paid leave while the bosses
investigate it. I was so looking forward to having you on board Allana … I have been
rejected so many times in my life I have got to the point where at 53, I no longer
want to associate myself with negative people who put me down! I have bounced
back from cruel comments more times than I can remember and I’m mentally
drained now. I have to go to a meeting Aug 2nd to see the bosses of the ship
regarding the Dr … I am dreading the whole thing … but I have to clear my name as
the Dr said so many lies about me which hurts. I know my worth and have walked
away with dignity! I feel I want to go in another direction now … I have 33 yrs
nursing experience plus have excellent people skills … I’ve wanted to complete my
life coaching course for some time now … I would really appreciate your advise
Allana, as a friend … I have so much to offer I just need someone to believe in
me … Janet the person. I must continue my journey through life … I am happy
inside and know that having a friend like you around … keeps me strong. I love
you … Love J xoxoxo”
I’d love to be able to do a private session with you for inside there is a part that has
attracted this experience for your freedom, your growth and your empowerment …
my advice would be to journal with your Soul …
- What is the gift in this?
- What am I not seeing?
- Who does the Dr. represent in ME … where do I betray myself?
- Where can I start telling the truth, honoring my worth?
- What illusion are you ready for me to end, soul?
- How must I see myself or the other in a new way that will create a new
- What are my unmet needs, that I can give myself instead of giving my
power away …
Hopefully this is a good start …
I am also inspired to create next month’s guided meditation in my
Redefining Sexuality Membership about the release of betrayal …
I’m with you sister,