Be In Love With Yourself!
During the wedding season, we single gals can get triggered. Unfortunately this ruins our chances of finding love even more… we might withhold joy to our friends getting married, hurting those relationships, coming across as jealous or disinterested… when all that’s going on is that our heart hurts that we haven’t met the one… yet and we’re unable (or unwilling) to do our internal work so that we can show up present and happy for our friend’s joyous union.
Sometimes when we get triggered, we might get competitive which makes us ugly and cranky. When we value our worth from the outside in… “he chose me thus I am enough” this creates a major alpha bitch war zone where we even make excuses of why he chose her, not you, separating the closeness and friendship you share, making us highly unattractive as a friend and as a girlfriend to single men watching us in our scarcity mentality.
Most of the time when we get triggered, we beat ourselves up which lowers our self-esteem… what’s wrong with me? Why don’t I have a guy? Why did he choose her over me? I’ll never find someone; I’ll be old and die alone eating cat food under a bridge… It’s a slippery slope! Everything has its divine time, instead of going south and judging yourself, see if you can find reasons why this is a blessing that you’re single, what’s right about being single? How grateful you are that he hasn’t arrived and how happy you are for the moment when he does show up. This way you love you NOW, are happy for her NOW and show up glowing and authentic at the wedding!
Why is this important? Because if you’re judging you, the bride or life AT a wedding, the cute guy beside you is definitely not going to be interested in a whining negative depressed or miffed woman!!! You never know when or where you’ll meet him… and it’s your choice to enjoy or suffer through the time before you meet him… so I say be grateful, kind and be the Real YOU! Here’s HOW to shift from triggered to feeling terrific… Watch this…