Using Seduction as a Manipulation
I really thought I was kind of alone in being a female coaching men in intimate relationships. I’ve heard of one and have reached out to collaborate- nothing. I found another today and was honestly saddened that she was dressed in lingerie on her site promoting her coaching to men.
Now of course I enjoy flirting big time and showering my praise on amazing men reminding them of their noble existence, but this woman’s site made me sad and even a wee angrey that she seemed to be straight up using her seduction in the realm of coaching- a profession I take so very seriously.
I feel protective of men who have been emasculated, who are timid, who are lonely and so desperatetly want a good woman to love. They are tender, precious souls (as are my sisters on the planet who have been betrayed of course) and I sure as hell hope she provides a valuable service.
As I think about it, I”ve learned from various Trainings the high degree to which NLP, psychology and down right manipulation is taught to get us to run to the back of the room to buy thousand dollar products with money we don’t have.Yuck.
In fact, this is really no different than ALL the manipulation my colleague Eldon Taylor speaks of in his latest book “What If”.
I’m sure cars were draped in gorgeous women at the Car Show in NYC this past weekend.
Hell I’ve even handed out flyers at Big Machine Tradeshows. Granted I was dressed professionally yet I was hired for my radiance.
I guess life has always been like this and yet my Mother Bear comes alive when I think of the magnificent men I’ve had the honor of coaching being treated anything less than noble… makes my fur stand on end.
Sex can be such a gorgeous, healthy, fulfilling, nourishing, life giving, stress relieving, spiritually connecting sacred act that when it’s used as a manipulation to make our young 10 yr old girls dress like 18 yr olds, or girl bikini’s have padded bras… I get pissed.
And so I Be The Change I Want To See.
And I invite you to do the same.
Deliciously yours, Allana>