Selflessness ~ Men's Group on Facebook
I like your awareness of doing an act in the moment for it feels right, no need for credit, just what you chose to do from love. I question though if sharing it later is necessarily selfish or even off… for the point of me asking you to share was to be leaders, examples, conscious lifters.
Just the concern that it might sound like bragging or ego driven is something to get clear on and potentially clear. Society is so welcoming of hardship struggle and overcoming… sharing our victim martyr stories…and yet heaven forbid someone share about success, love, light or service! You know?
One of the biggest hurdles in my evolution was letting go of my fear of being joy, sharing joy, experiencing joy and sharing joy. Sure, when I’m sad or need to hermit, that’s fine, yet when I’m oozing with pleasure, why would I shut that down to make others feel comfortable or to make sure I didn’t sound bragging?
There is healthy humility that’s void of bragging, yet there is humble yet fully expressed expansive appreciation of victory as well! I believe when it’s authentic void of the resistance of concern from what other’s think, that sharing your wins uplifts all.
So as an act of inspiring others in our community, as an act free from parental upbringing that potentially clouds your most authentic truth, share pure YOU…how you support your mom in the hospital while navigating the tortunes of TV channels! Brilliant! Share taking care of the widow’s lawn, share your concern about sharing… just be authentic! Real is sexy!
From fullness BE the feelings of gratifying fulfillment as you walk through your day… AND give yourself permission to release all embarrassment or appropriate sharing for being the badass kick butt fabulous men you are.
I personally get all heeby jeebied out when a man holds back being all humble… underneath it seems to be begging for more inquiry from a place of unworthiness. I love a man who says the truth fully completely, looking me straight in the eye, nothing to be ashamed of or holding back, nor anything to overcompensate for with bravado.
Just own it.
Truth is Sexy.
A man from authentic fullness who contributes from choice, not obligation.
Valentine’s Month or any month.
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