Man Moodiness! Men get moody, too!
Is your husband the moodiest when he’s starving? Does he become this cave man grunting creature? Literally find a snack, use little words, just give it to him, maybe rub his belly, smile a nourishing knowing smile and let him rest.
Perhaps your man is the moodiest when sleep deprived? Short fuse with the kids? Seeming to harp on how everything’s broken from the shed, to the company, to the government. Seriously, turn on the tube to something mindless, take the kids out for ice-cream, he’ll pass out in 5 and you’ll return to a more socially welcoming hero.
Yet perhaps your man is moody because he’s unsatisfied with life, it’s not the job, or you, or the kids… he’s not living his dream, he’s lost his purpose for getting up in the morning, he’s lost his drive for life. This is more serious, for he’s lost his reason for being.
To support a man who’s lost his reason for Being is an art, not a science. You must trust you intuition. Do you feel lighter when you imagine giving him space? Or do you feel lighter when you imagine being fierce love, saying how much you friggen’ love him and your heart breaks to see him disconnected from his passion?
Men’s programs such as; my Dear Lover DVD or a men’s group like the Mankind Project or simply a weekend away with his mentors and best friends who love him, but will challenge him… any or all of these may be necessary to help him sit in the fire and literally transform into the next phase of his journey.
And lastly, it may just be that he needs sex. Pleeeeease know it’s not as shallow or crass as I’m making it out to be! Ladies, from what I’ve learned from coaching hundreds of men… making love with you is the most exquisite experience, like plugging into Life Force Itself, they are in awe, wonder and amazement about your body, your softness, and your curves. Know that a night of making love might be all he needs to be back to himself… and you might just enjoy being pleasured as well.>