Help Me Escape the Friend Zone
So many have asked me about the friend zone. The land where so many men find themselves stranded, unable to escape. How did you land there in the first place? Why are you always being placed in the friend zone. Is it something you say? Or are you constantly seeking approval and sealing your own fate?
As we grow, we evolve from the unconditional love of our parents, to the acquired love of partners and peers. Somehow we convinced ourselves we had to work for it, earn it, and it validated who we were. Where the misdirection lies is that we only need to love ourselves, all of ourselves. We are the ones in charge of our self-worth, not those around us. When we give them that power, we doom ourselves to live where they choose to place us, including the friend zone.
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