Dads Have Big ‘ol Hearts, Too.
By Intimacy Expert, Allana Pratt
Can I let you in on a secret? I know we see our men as big, muscle bound, impermeable rocks in our lives… and they often are! Yet having coached hundreds of men around the world, one of the most misunderstood parts of them is their big hearts.
From “Boys don’t cry” to “Don’t let ‘em see you sweat”… men have been taught to suppress their emotions and many have wounded hearts from when we (not on purpose, but in our unconsciousness, fear or anger) cut off their heads, emasculated them and trashed them to their core.
I don’t mean to bring a downer to Father’s Day, just to get your attention. Men need appreciation. Men need hugs. Men need more than an “I’m sorry.” They need “How can I make it up to you?” The men I coach arrive with wounded hearts and yet when those hearts are healed, they want nothing more than to shower YOU in adoration and affection. Please get that, if that misunderstanding never got cleared up, something will ALWAYS be in the way of the intimacy, joy and connection you both crave.
And yet here’s the kicker. Men don’t want to learn from their mother, lover or wife! Even if you’re right! (which, I’m sure you are!) Thus this Father’s Day, I have the perfect solution. My men’s curriculum. It’s called Dear Lover and I’ve created a special offer ONLY for Father’s Day! Let ME help heal his heart, remind him how much you mean to him, help ignite his passion for life, so he wakes up and comes home as the man you fell in love with. Kind of like, I’m your wing girl, supporting your relationship to thrive and family to flourish.
In my curriculum, I transform wound from childhood and past relationships, so the man can focus on being confident, clear, present, peaceful and free. I guide him on how to speak to women, how to be in a way that makes us feel seen, safe and adored. Marriages that are good become GREAT… and relationships in trouble begin thriving again. Supplemental interviews really take the message home; the curriculum really does guide him to have a fabulous nourishing intimate relationship with YOU!
This Father’s Day do what really counts, do something for his heart, forgive and create what works, commit to growing closer, deeper and more in love, and let me support this happening with efficiency, effectiveness and ease. http://goallana.com/dear-lover-with-allana-pratt/