I just finished hosting my third DVD for The Sinclair Institute who is one of the foremost sex educators online.
They certainly have many ‘tools’ to support you on your own side of the world to spice up phone sex.
Yet here is what has worked for my clients, videos. I wouldn’t recommend posting them on youtube of course, not even on ‘private’… and I wouldn’t recommend sending something overtly sexual unless you completely trust your partner… and yet one client did a two part video series for her man.
First he had sent her a package of lingerie. She opened it ‘on camera’ expressing her joy and teasing him to what was coming next…
Then she created a video of her dancing for him in several of the pieces… with a strip tease at the end.
He LOVED it and their texts got HOT, their emails more intimate… and a certain Skype ‘date’ very erotic.
What underlies all these solutions is the commitment to stay connected emotionally, sexually and intimately when your partner is away.
Remember just cuz you’re not IN bed with your partner each night, to still ‘hold space’ and stay connected. Distance can make the heart grow fonder…