Sexy Moms – Be Happy & Rock Your Man’s World!
Do you watch any of the Real Housewives reality shows? I’ll admit it, I do tune in on occasion. And the other night I was watching Real Housewives of New York the other day and I cracked up when I heard one of the husbands say; “Happy wife, happy life.” How true!
Really, that’s all men want to do is to make us happy. But, as much as I hate to say it, it’s up to US to be happy. No one can me you happy except YOU! Don’t rely on your man to make you happy. But men also want to be happy and one of the biggest ways men say their wives can make them happy are; to be happy themselves – which would lead to no nagging and no guilt-trips.
It all sounds so simple, but if you’re anything like me, some days I just can’t help it. I mean, here I am surrounded by what seems like a million loads of laundry, another school project to complete, carpool to drive, work to complete and a house that looks like a hurricane went through it. And I’m not supposed to ask for help? Yeah, right!
But really when it all comes down to it, are any of these things more important than making you and your man happy? I think not!
Now, you may read this next part and think I’m completely off my rocker, but go with me for a second. Take some time to open your heart to your husband and treat him like royalty. Give him a day of freedom, let him off the hook – and have a day all to himself – no guilt-trips allowed. Okay, keep reading, I promise there’s something in it for you too…
Next up, take the kids and drop them off at your parents, the babysitter, wherever – home is now a kids-free zone. Then it’s all about YOU! Go out and have some fun. Call a friend that make you laugh and go out to lunch, go to the spa for a relaxing massage, take a sexy fitness class like pole dancing. Do something good just for you to nourish your soul.
The point of this little exercise is to give both you and your man a day to fill up your tanks and re-energize so later on you can reconnect.
After you’ve picked up the kids and they are off to bed, it’s now time for some extra-special romance. This night is about true love and showering each other with your new found energy. This is no time for the run-of-the-mill obligation love-making, it’s time to let go, be free and enjoy one another. Your man won’t know what hit him!
Moms… if we wait for everyone else to make us happy, we’re guaranteed to have a lackluster life. If we fill up our tanks first… we create an inviting space for our men to contribute to our happiness. Men want a guarantee they can win at making us happy! The greatest gift you can give your man is a Happy YOU!
Your family’s worth it, your marriage it worth it and YOU my gorgeous moms, are worth it! Now go have some fun!>