Delegate and Escape with Friends For A (Much Deserved) Break…It’s OK!
I used to deprive my self worth by how much I could do for others, how much they appreciated me, how much better their life was when I did EVERYTHING for them (to my own detriment of course).
Hell, I’ve married men just because they and everyone around them said how much better they were now that I was in their life (divorcing myself in totality and losing my life force energy for the insecure hit of feeling needed).
Things have changed! Thank God! While I appreciate people who acknowledge my contribution, I don’t NEED it nor do I seek it to be enough. Instead I ask first how I can be a contribution to ME so that from fullness I make solid choices that honor me and thus honor others.
Going out of town with my girlfriends or on a date weekend with a lover is just the ticket. It requires delegating, reorganizing, getting creative and letting go: ALL GREAT LIFE SKILLS for the empowered woman!
Delegate the kids to someone else, another flavor of love and gifts to receive from Dad, a friend, family member.
Reorganize your schedule, the world doesn’t revolve completely around you, you can ask someone else to bring snacks to baseball, to handle the account, to find another pole dancing class to take that week.
Get creative… there are plenty of ways to get from A to B… ask What would it take to change this with delicious ease? Who could I ask for support? What else is possible here that would allow me to take downtime with ease? The answers will arrive.
Letting go is the possibly the toughest but most potent part of this experience… our universe is only as big as we allow it to be… the more we stay in control, the smaller we squish our world. Yet when we let go, we make room for God, for the Field to support us, to co-create with the Divine, to play with magic. Maybe life could be even better than you could ever imagine. If you let go and allow it.
You can do it.
Let it be so much fun.
More than you’ve ever imagined.>