Dating online..What are you afraid of?
What are you afraid of with online dating? Yes, people lie. But that happens everywhere. Yes there are stalkers. But that happens everywhere. Yes you could get your heart broken. But that happens everywhere. Yes they could be married. But that happens everywhere. Yes they may put up fake photos and end up being horrifically smelly… yet what a great story to tell!!!!
What I love about online dating is in general, what you put out there is what you get back. If you are super clear with what you want, rarely will you have someone respond who’s not a fit. If you are super grounded, intuitive and listen to your gut, you will feel if someone is ‘off’, slimy or taking a big game… trust yourself everywhere in life including online.
I think it’s fabulous that you can get to know a lot about someone from a profile, more from emails/texting, more from a phone call ALL BEFORE YOU MEET THEM IN PERSON! And I also love that you can practice Thank you but No thank you… and move on relatively quickly until you find someone you really click with.
I had interviewed Scot and Emily McKay on IntimateConversationsLive.com and Emily shared how she got very clear on what she wanted… she healed from her past relationship and was willing to be alone unless someone really wowed her. Scot and her have this ease, respect and total humor between one another… they click, their communication styles complement one another, they genuinely like one another and from the full self-expression they enjoy as themselves, they are generous and easily turned on by one another year after year.
Ladies this is what Emily has to say about the recipe for success with online dating…it’s called Click with Him and 2 children and 7 yrs. of marriage later… they are still mushy.
https://allanapratt.com/clickwithim/I say go for it. Get out there. Keep your wits about you and have fun. Stay lighthearted. Take nothing personally and just taking that STEP says to the Universe you are serious and the chances of that special someone showing up just sky rocketed.
And if this fear is just too much to let go on your own, that’s no reason to give up on love… connect with me and let my tender unconditionally loving nonjudgmental coaching heal that wounded heart, regain your confidence and unleash your natural sex appeal so you enjoy YOU, enjoy the process of dating… and enjoy meeting and getting close to someone who contributes deliciously to your life… just like you contribute deliciously to theirs. Contact my assistantand let’s connect so I can recommend the coaching program that’s right for you.