Blind dating! Bomb? Bodacious?

Blind dating! Bomb? Bodacious?

I am totally open to blind dates. I am open to the variety of ways the Universe can bring me love, money, joy, miracles…
Who am I to say no as long as it works for me?
Yet I don’t do much in life ‘blind’ without checking in with my inner knowing first…
So, I keep a look out for a few red flags before meeting someone (and on a blind date or any first date really… I meet in public places, drive myself there and back, always talk to the person first to make sure I enjoy the conversation and Google them to see what I find…always fun when they find out what I DO!!)
My first question is always WHO recommended this person? If the recommender is someone who has a crappy relationship, is a total player, in and out of prison, is completely unconscious or negative in life… SO ARE THEIR FRIENDS!!!
Seriously, sometimes we get either desperate to meet someone or we give our power away to another’s advice vs. trusting our own guidance… that we’ll go out with someone who’s a total mismatch…
Yet if you take a moment to get out of your head… into your body and ask a fabulous question from Access Consciousness, if I make this choice, what are the infinite possibilities? You will get either light and expansive or heavy and contractive. It’s not a thought. It’s a sensation. It’s not mental, it’s a knowing. It’s not even a feeling… as much as a possibility…
So if you want to pass out, vomit, it’s so heavy… TRUST THAT.
If it’s middle… ask more questions…
If it’s light… ask more questions too… yet know you’re onto something.
Yet here’s the thing with energy. It doesn’t tell you He’s the One or She’s the One. It might mean that they will be a good friend, a great dentist, or even THEIR friend is the One. It just means meeting this person will contribute and add to your life.
This is where trust comes in. Just cuz Aunt Jan says he’s a great guy doesn’t mean he’s a great guy for YOU. Just cuz your friends tell you she’s hot, doesn’t mean she turns YOU on. Always trust yourself and allow yourself to HAVE a relationship where there is fabulous attraction, generosity and responsibility with money, total allowance and celebration of whom you are and who they are… and enjoy the process of deepening such a solid foundation with your intimate relationship with YOU… and with them. So much is possible! YUM!
And lastly… my clients who always refer to their husband or wives as their lovers… keeping that curiosity alive… and tend to thrive and flourish over time. So even once the ‘dating’ is over… stay in the question about who this wonderful person is today (including yourself!). It CAN get better and better and better…. xoxoxo Allana>

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