7 Things You Must Do for YOU After a Breakup, Part 7
7. Shift From Wanting to Having What You Choose
For years I was into the wanting, creating the vision board to want that reality…Wanting a great man in my life, wanting to feel his support, and partnership: truly, absolutely clear with what I wanted. Crystal clear.
And he never showed up.
I had done steps 1-6 brilliantly, was radiant, self-loving, turned heads when I entered a room, had my bulk pack of batteries for my operated “friend”… And yet he still didn’t show up.
The only men that showed up kept alive in me the feeling of “wanting” him… They didn’t call enough, they wouldn’t commit, they weren’t ready for relationship, they weren’t that into my son… I “wanted” them to be the picture of who I was “wanting” to come into my life.
Honestly, it wasn’t until I started listening to Access Consciousness that I heard it clearly. It finally dawned on me that I hadn’t been a demand, not a bitchy, ultimatum, fear-based, angry, demand… No, instead a fiercely loving demand that I’M HAVING HIM. YUP. I’M HAVING MY MAN.
It was wild. I bypassed “how” and I bypassed “wanting” and I bypassed “when or where” and went straight to a loving “I’m done with this and I’m having him and I’m having him NOW…” That everything changed.
I had heard from Gurutej back a year ago, and that week heard from my energy worker Lanaiya King, “sign up for spiritual singles.” I did not want to sign up for Spiritual Singles.
Yet I was HAVING HIM.
And so I wrote the most lean, mean, to the point, totally authentic, short, in one-sitting profile… Only put one picture up, not even the one I wanted but the only one saved on the laptop I was using… And I said to the Universe, “FINE. Here. I’m showing up. I’m having him.”
Two weeks later I met Mark.
He had decided he’s having a tantric relationship and evolving his consciousness through worshiping the Divine Goddess.
That will do, thank you very much. (tee hee)
When you’re willing to demand from fierce love, the Universe listens. For you are finally the space to receive.
Ready for me to show you the way that has worked for me? Can’t wait, you amazing gift to the planet. Contact me if you’re ready.