7 Things You Must Do for YOU After a Breakup, Part 6
6. Fall Madly in Love with Yourself
I used to be afraid that if I loved myself too much, I’d become stuck-up, a snob… No one would like me, my head would explode. I thought if I had too much pleasure, I’d forget to take the garbage out, pick up my son from school, or even remember what day of the week it was. I was terrified to let go and be wild, free, with unbridled passion for the unknown, dancing through the mystery. Would I have to leave society?
What’s wild is that the exact opposite is true!
In fact, it’s the insecure people who are stuck up, overcompensating for the lack of “enoughness” they feel inside.
In fact, it’s the ones in denial and avoidance that procrastinate and break their word. Happy, confident people are the most reliable around!
In fact, people who love themselves to the core are the most generous people I know, with healthy boundaries so people don’t mess with them, willing to take risks to live their dreams while being truly moved to the core with gratitude, with what they have right now.
When you respond to a breakup with falling madly in love with yourself, life with you is delicious, and THAT’S attractive to the opposite sex!
When you’re in love with the core of you, judgment dissolves, and thus you don’t attract those that judge you either.
When you are humbled by your grandeur, full from the inside out, you attract someone from a place of choice (not need), able to receive their love, for you know your worth.
It’s almost like the inner King and Queen that reside in your heart, made manifested on the outside world.
How does it get even more delicious than that? Let’s find out!