10 Biggest Mistakes Men Make-Introduction
I am starting a new series on the 1o biggest mistakes men make in relationships, and I am sharing it with you! If you want to learn more, you need to come back each day to discover the next mistake men make. Here is the first one, and it is absolutely foundational:
10. Needing us. We want you to be clear you choose us, desire us, love being with us, feel better with our warmth, tenderness, sexuality, appreciate our praise and interest in what you do, yet never ever need us or you give us ALL the power. Give yourself enough self love, self care, self listening, self compassion and forgiveness, self esteem and self approval to never need us. Make your relationship with your Soul, with God, with Truth, with Existence #1.
*Low self esteem insecure women seeking security from the outside might try to persuade you to make her #1. Notice if you do, you’re resent her quickly. It will feel wrong.Acknowledge she’s the fuel to your rocket, that you’re stronger, wiser, clearer because of her…yet never need her. Respect her, honor her, appreciate and support her. Caress her face for hours… fuck her to the ends of the Universe, have her back no matter what, meet her deepest heart with your deepest core… yet remember needing her is an illusion. You need nothing. YOU ARE EVERYTHING ALREADY.
Come back tomorrow to learn more about the mistakes men make in relationships. If you want to go deeper, to learn more, to sit in the fire with me and get rid of the Nice Guy, check out my Men’s Webinar, A Summer to Remember with Allana, and consider reserving one of the few seats left!
You are loved, great magnificent man. With a bow to your nobility, blessings, deliciously, Allana>