Archive for Questions and Answers – Page 3

How Do I Attract the Right Woman

Q: I am having issues attracting the right woman. Do you have any advice on how to attract the right one?
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How to Handle a Co-Dependent Partner

Q: I feel like my boyfriend has a co-dependency issue. I have a bunch of friends – he has…well me. I can’t be all that he has!
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How To Walk The Fine Line Between Caring and Enabler

Q: Allana, what do you do when you feel like you have gone from girlfriend, to mom. As disgusting as it sounds, I feel like my boyfriend has substituted me for his mommy. He wants me to do everything for him. I don’t even feel like I am with a real man anymore. Is this my fault? Should I stop being so caring? Am I being an enabler.
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How to Date a Widower

Q: Allana, I’m dating a widower. His wife passed away 10 months ago after a long illness and I was friends with them both. For awhile, I felt very comfortable with him and I will say he has opened my heart, wide open. I don’t know if it is fear or what but recently, it concerns me that he still has wedding pictures and other intimate photos scattered all over the house. He also has her robe hanging in the bathroom and places his on top of hers. His profile picture on Facebook is still a beautiful loving picture of them together. We have been sexually intimated now for two and half months and he says that he loves me. He’s never been with a woman so passionate, sensitive, and orgasmic. He’s taken me to parties and all of his friends love me and me them.
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3 Ways to Turn His Bad Day Around

Q: Allana, what advice would you give a woman about what she should do when men come home after having a tough day.

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Love of My Life is Married But Kissed Me. Is it a Sign?

Q: Allana, I let the love of my life go 4 years ago this New Year’s. My line of work was going to pull me away from her and I didn’t want her to have to sacrifice happiness to be with me. When I saw her again a few weeks ago, my heart just broke. She’s married and seems to be happy. We went out late for drinks and out of nowhere, she kissed me! There is still something between us but now she is devoted to her husband. My head is swimming, what is going on?
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