Divorcing for the Third Time!

Q:  Allana, I’m 45 yrs old and finding myself having to divorce for a third time. I have two children from my first marriage, 21 and 18 that live away from home. I’m currently serving in the military yet will be medically released soon. My current separated from me two years ago, let me live with her yet I’m struggling to let her go. She’s now with somebody else. I’m not sure I can get over her. She’s told me to get the divorce. People have told me to block her number but I still have romantic feelings for her. At 45 with two children moving to a new town with no fish in the sea, how can I keep myself sane from being single? Maybe work on myself and my life without going insane from being alone! I know this sounds depressing as I’m still madly in love with my wife. I can not move on to hurt someone else. But I figured I would stay off dating sites and see what happens to me. Any advice?
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Boyfriend and I Can’t Stop Fighting!

Q:  My boyfriend and I are having a huge fight right now. He decided to take it upon himself to do something because he was watching out for my best interest, But I never asked him to and was pissed that he didn’t think I could handle the matter myself. He doesn’t believe he did anything wrong and I can’t see how he could be so blind. Am I overreacting or did he overstep?
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No One is Out There For Me. I Give Up!

Q:  I’m 27 years of age and can’t find a girl I’m about to give up. What advice can you give to some one like me who’s an introvert and suffers from social anxiety and no social skills and hopeless romantic. Also I’m about to think that I’m a lost cause.
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Permission from Current to See Ex?

Q:  Do you need to have permission to see an ex when you are in a serious relationship?
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Too Soon for a Sleepover

Q:  When is it appropriate to start having sleepovers with someone you are dating? I don’t want to move too fast.
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Single, Virgin, and Feeling Worthless

Q:  I’m 32 years old guy, I’ve never been in a relationship, I’ve never had a girl and never had sex. I don’t have problems socially, I go out, approach women, ask them out, friend them, I do everything but no woman was ever interested in me.
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