Dating Personality “Modifiers”

Question: In your newsletter, you talked about finding out if your attractions are false or true and about “modifiers.” Can you explain some more about that?

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Friend, Lover, Married! Help!

Question:  I have a guy friend that is my best friend. And he’s having a rocky relationship in his marriage…we have gotten together. I have been single for nine years. How can I be nice and just let it go? I keep communicating this with him and he’s not listening!!  Read More →

Allana, how do you get such divine skin?

Seriously? I felt this wave of embarrassment wash over me when you asked that. Back when I was in dance class in my teens, I had horrible acne on my shoulder and all the acne drugs didn’t work. My Dad was a pharmacist and got me on this simple Sulfa drug and for some reason, it cleaned it all up by graduation, Thank God! Yet I remember not being able to wear a T-shirt in ballet class and KNOWING the girl behind me was grossed out. So humiliating. Read More →

Can’t Pry my Wife Away from Kids for Intimacy

Q: Allana, my wife is incredible. She does so much for our family that I would love to do something for her. Unfortunately, I can’t pry her away from the kids long enough to spend an intimate, relaxing day out by herself. How can I convince her that she needs to take care of herself?

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Helping Women Achieve An Orgasm

I do not have a Ph.D., yet I have gone from not even knowing I had a clitoris or what it was… to being multi-orgasmic and ejaculatory… and I have supported my female clients in going from non-orgasmic to orgasmic, or orgasmic to ejaculatory. Read More →

Letting Go of the Past

Q: How do I truly separate myself from my past and move forward? I have met someone that is incredible but I don’t feel like I completely healed from the destruction that was my last relationship.

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