Post Pregnancy Body Turns Off Husband

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Q: My husband is no longer sexually attracted to me. I gained a few pounds with our little girl and he is used to my pre-pregnancy body. How can I be in a marriage if my husband is not attracted to me?

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Boyfriend Wants to Jump Ship. Baby on the Way

Q: My boyfriend has one foot out the door and I am pregnant with his child and I’m in a custody battle about my first child. Please help me find the good in all of this.
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Increase Your Self Esteem!

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Q:  Allana, I have really low self-esteem. I envy all of these empowered women that have all of this confidence. How can I become more like these women?

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Getting Married Again. Is Fourth Time a Charm?

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Q: In 14 years, I have been married three times. The first marriage only lasted because we had a child. I couldn’t get out of the second fast enough. We won’t even discuss #3. I think I have met husband # 4 but I am guarded. How do I know all of these failed marriages aren’t my fault – what if #4 is already doomed before it even starts?

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He’s Love Me Because I Remind Him of Her…Who Died…

 

Q: Allana, there may not be an answer but I’m gonna ask anyway. I’m in love with a man who is only with me because I remind him of his girlfriend that passed away unexpectedly a few years ago. I know this isn’t healthy. Am I preventing him from moving on. Is he using me to in a way to keep her memory alive?

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Still in Love With My Ex, Is It Too Late?

Q:  Allana, everyone but me knew I was still in love with my ex. By the time I realized it, it was too late and he had met someone else. We have gone through so much together and I know if I just told him how I felt we would be together again. I am the one that ended it. I am the one that broke his heart but the things I care about then just don’t matter now. What should I do?

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