Love of My Life is Married But Kissed Me. Is it a Sign?

Q: Allana, I let the love of my life go 4 years ago this New Year’s. My line of work was going to pull me away from her and I didn’t want her to have to sacrifice happiness to be with me. When I saw her again a few weeks ago, my heart just broke. She’s married and seems to be happy. We went out late for drinks and out of nowhere, she kissed me! There is still something between us but now she is devoted to her husband. My head is swimming, what is going on?
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3 Tips for Dating Your Boss

Q: I have been dating a man at work for awhile. Things have been going great but recently, he was promoted and now he IS MY BOSS!
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How ‘Friends With Benefits’ Go Back to Being ‘Just Friends’

Q: Can a man and woman who have been friends with benefits for awhile go back to just being friends with no consequences?
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3 Reasons Why We Bother to Date

Q: Have you ever had one of those moments in your life when you ask yourself, Why do I bother to keep dating? People keep telling me to hold my chin up, weather the storm, but I just don’t believe it anymore. How can I find a reason to keep going each day?
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What To Do When She Makes More Money?

Q: When a woman makes more money and is more successful than her male counterpart, is that emasculating?
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How Do You Compete with a Soulmate?

Q: Allana, my husband considers his ex-wife to be his soulmate. While they divorced some time ago, because he fell in love with me, I still feel like I’m competing with her. She’s clearly moved on and happily remarried but they’re still good friends and he still considers her, not me, to be his soulmate. Should I be jealous or feel threatened?
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