Archive for trust

Wife Doesn’t Trust Me With Our Children

Q: My wife doesn’t trust me with our children.  She hovers and if anything happens, I never hear the end of it.  She messes up too!  How can I get her to see that I am just as good of a parent as she is.

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Accidentally Learned About Ex


Q: While house sitting for my girlfriend, I decided to check my email on her computer (she left me the password so I won’t be bored).  Problem is, her email auto loads and I saw her ex-boyfriend’s name!  He wrote her saying he wants her back.  What do I do? Do I tell her I know this?

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Vulnerability is So Sexy – The Reveal


On April 14th, I took part in one of the most delicious, revealing, tantalizing interviews that I have had in a long time!  The luscious Lyanca Reyna and phenomenal Deborah Hawkins asked me to get a little dirty – loved it!

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Stopping My Friends From Cutting Me Down

You asked Coach Allana Pratt: I love my girlfriends but they can be a little snarky at times, which drives me nuts. How can I keep my friendship but politely tell them to stop cutting me down?

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I Think He Is Keeping Something From Me. What Should I Do?

Q:  Allana, I don’t know why but I have this sinking suspicious that my boyfriend is keeping something from me.  I have no idea what to do!

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Allana Gets Real with Deb Owen

I love to get intimate. I love authentic conversations. I love someone who can go eye to eye with me as a listener… truly listening, not just waiting for me to stop talking to ask another question, oblivious to what I just said.


Deb is a GREAT communicator. She asked questions that made me come alive. She knew the dance of listening and talking, sharing her journey and inviting me go deeper and deeper based on the space she could hold.

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