Archive for Shame

Be Kind To My Erectile Dysfunction

Question: I am so tired of the double standard when it comes to sexual performance. If a woman is having an issue with her sexuality or is not in a mood, men are supposed to be sympathetic; but, if we are having ED problems or other related trouble getting it up – we are chastised for it. Why should there be a difference? Don’t both situations deserve compassion and tolerance?
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Shame, the dark secret in America

Never have I been so clear about what I love to do, what I am honored to hold space for…  I love to go into the darkness and be with the shame, guilt and punishment that we inflict upon ourselves… and help heal that, release us from that, shine light on the blind spot so we can see again, shine again, soar in totality. Read More →