Archive for sexual desires

What is the Best Way to Share Your Fantasies With a Partner?

Q: I would consider myself a non-vanilla person. The problem is, I don’t know the appropriate way to slip my desires into a conversation. What’s the best way to introduce something sexual in a new dating relationship? Especially because I feel they may be deemed too dirty… threesomes, S&M, sex swinging etc, without scaring the person off?
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Happily Married but Sexual Unsatisfied

You asked, “Coach Allana, I am a happily married man but my wife just can’t satisfy my sexual needs.   We are so opposite in the bedroom.  I obviously don’t want a divorce but I don’t want to be unsatisfied either.  Help!”
Different Desires in the Bedroom

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He Has a Fit When I’m ‘NOT in the MOOD’!

You asked Coach Allana Pratt, “I feel as if my husband doesn’t understand me.  I do so much for him and our family but he has the biggest fit when I am not in the mood. How can I get him to understand that I am being stretched thin and to back off?

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Need Help! Want to Introduce Sexual Desires to Partner

Q: I would consider myself a non-vanilla person. The problem is, I don’t know the appropriate way to slip my desires into a conversation. What’s the best way to introduce something sexual in a new dating relationship? Especially because I feel they may be deemed too dirty… threesomes, S&M, sex swinging etc, without scaring the person off?
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I am a happily married man but my wife just can’t satisfy my sexual needs.  

You asked, “Coach Allana, I am a happily married man but my wife just can’t satisfy my sexual needs.   We are so opposite in the bedroom.  I obviously don’t want a divorce but I don’t want to be unsatisfied either.  Help!”
Different Desires in the Bedroom

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