Archive for sex

Boyfriend STILL talks to Ex…

Q: Allana, my boyfriend still talks to his ex. They say they are just friends but it still makes me jealous. Should I give him an ultimatum or should I learn to accept that this is OK? Is it now the norm to keep in touch with your ex’s?

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What is energetic sex and how can I do it?

Question: Allana, what is ‘energetic sex’ and how can I do it?

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She’s not interested in sex recently!

Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for a couple of years now and she seems less interested in having sex lately. What can I do to spark her interest without seeming like I am always begging for more sex?

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Helping Women Achieve An Orgasm

I do not have a Ph.D., yet I have gone from not even knowing I had a clitoris or what it was… to being multi-orgasmic and ejaculatory… and I have supported my female clients in going from non-orgasmic to orgasmic, or orgasmic to ejaculatory. Read More →

Old Dog Can’t Learn New Tricks

Q: My husband and I have been married for so long that our sex life is basically the same routine.  How can I amp it up? Can that old dog still learn a few new tricks?

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Nuts and Bolts of the Female Orgasm

Orgasms are amazing, yes? Good for our heart, our skin, our emotions, our wellbeing.

And even though I’m not a doctor, here is my best shot at your wonderful detailed questions about orgasms…

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