Archive for sex

Helping Women Achieve An Orgasm

I do not have a Ph.D., yet I have gone from not even knowing I had a clitoris or what it was… to being multi-orgasmic and ejaculatory… and I have supported my female clients in going from non-orgasmic to orgasmic, or orgasmic to ejaculatory. Read More →

Old Dog Can’t Learn New Tricks

Q: My husband and I have been married for so long that our sex life is basically the same routine.  How can I amp it up? Can that old dog still learn a few new tricks?

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Nuts and Bolts of the Female Orgasm

Orgasms are amazing, yes? Good for our heart, our skin, our emotions, our wellbeing.

And even though I’m not a doctor, here is my best shot at your wonderful detailed questions about orgasms…

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Wife and I No Longer Share a Bed

Q: Allana, I am worried.  My wife and I are no longer sharing a bed.  She told me that it was because she was having trouble sleeping. The thing is, we have always shared a bed! Am I missing a red flag? Is something wrong?

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More Pleasure Toy Talk!

Q: Allana, I think there should be more talk of couple’s using sex toys in the bedroom. Why do you think it is so taboo?

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Wife’s Addicted to Porn

Q: I just found out that my wife is addicted to porn.  Well, maybe not addicted but needs help because she watches it a lot.  While I think on the one hand it is super hot, I worry that I don’t add up to what she is seeing and she may be watching it because I just don’t do it for her like the men in the videos do.  Have you ever had a situation like this?

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