Archive for sex

I am Always Initiating! How Can I Change This?

Q:   I am always initiate any intimacy between us.  Does this mean she doesn’t like me, that she isn’t into me?  How can I change this?
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Post Pregnancy Body Turns Off Husband

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Q: My husband is no longer sexually attracted to me. I gained a few pounds with our little girl and he is used to my pre-pregnancy body. How can I be in a marriage if my husband is not attracted to me?

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When Fiction and Reality Collide

So often we fall prey to the lusciousness of the relationships we see in movies and on television.

The intensity, the passion, the chase, and finally the union.

The question is, what happens when those who see these relationships look for them in reality?

Even bigger question, what if these relationship were real?

Would they be as beautiful, wonderful, magical or would we see a fourth wall that is often ignored?

I had the pleasure of tackling this sensational question with the delicious Sara Nachlis of Girlboss.

In her article, 10 Relationships In Pop Culture That Were Actually Toxic AF, I join fellow love and relationships coaches and really tackle the rawness of some of the most renown television relationships: Ross and Rachel, Carrie and Big, and a few others.  Check it out and let me know what you think.

All my love,
A.

Advice On Dating Someone Less Experienced?

Q: What do you do when you date someone that isn’t as “experienced” as you? I have met a nice girl and she has only had 2 partners while I had, well – a lot more.

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What Are Ways To Spice Up My Marriage and My Sex Life?

You asked Coach Allana, “How can I become more into my sex life and make my hubby happy?”
Improve Sex Life in Marriage

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How Do You Bring Up Sex Casually?

You asked, “Allana, How soon in a relationship should you talk about sex, baby?”
When to talk about babies

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