Q: After 40 years of marriage, my husband finally tells me he was actually interested in my sister. She just so happened to not be home that day so he settled for me for company. 40 years later and I find out I am second choice. What do I do with this information? Do I let it go? He told me as a whimsical brush off thinking it was funny since so much time has passed but I just don’t see the humor.