Archive for relationship coach

Point of No Return – Single Forever!

I love being an intimacy expert for the wonderful people at Meetmindful. Here is a delicious question I answered for them: Allana, I’ve been single for so long, I don’t even think I want a man. I’m not saying I want a woman either, I’m just asking – do people reach a point in their lives where they truly become asexual – where they don’t feel like dealing with the opposite sex, so they internalize their desires and that’s that.

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Keeping it in the Family

Sharing a little goodie from the great people of Meetmindful: Allana, my best friend’s dad likes my mom. While it would be great if things worked out (because we would be sisters for real!), it would make life extremely awkward if it didn’t work out. Should we talk to our parents and tell them how it would affect us if they crossed that line.

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Left with Wasted Years

Q: Another question asked by the single men in my workshop: Coach Allana, when two people make a promise to one another to love each other and swear that they do not need a piece of paper to prove it, is it ok if one day they say “Enough’s enough” and walk away? Where I live, we don’t have common law and my significant other and I made a promise to one another. Now she has decided she wants something else. And yet she was it for me. Am I really left with nothing but wasted years? What do I do now?

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In Love but Don’t See a Future

So many questions from Soul Shaking Conscious Relationship Week! Here is another: Allana, I am a lucky woman to have such an amazing boyfriend with a family that welcomes me and wants me to be part of their lives. The problem is, while I love my boyfriend, I’m not going to marry him. He’s a fantastic man but he wants the traditional thing: wife, kids, house, picket fence and I want a career! Maybe kids, when I’m older and more established. And if I break up with him, I feel like I am breaking up with his whole family. Help!

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A Woman Can Dream…

An outrageous myth that has been circulating for quite some time: women don’t want sex as much as men. Yes, we do! We love sex! We just need a little more to get us started and wish our men would do these three things in the bedroom.

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How Long Do You Wait To Call A Woman Who’s Given You Her Number?

Q: Allana, how long should you wait to call a woman after she gives you her number?  Should you text her instead? I hate games but this is the first woman that has looked my way in years and I don’t want to mess it up!

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