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Need One Lined Up Before I Can Move On

Q:  Coach, I have finally figured out something with the help of a friend of mine. I can’t move on from one girl/woman without meeting another.  I am still hung up on my ex-girlfriend but I realized I only got over the girlfriend before her because of her (and the one before that…) How do I break this cycle of having to replace the old with the new in order to be happy?

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He’s Getting a Divorce. Date Him or Run for It?

Q: Allana, I’m 54, divorced, and finally re-entering the dating scene.  I recently met a nice man who is currently going through a divorce. Having survived my own divorce, I know what he is experiencing and don’t want to be his rebound or reminder of one of the worst times in his life. I know I am being negative and it could be just the opposite but should I still date him or walk away?
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