Archive for Questions and Answers – Page 2

My Father is Gay, My Mother is Devastated.

Another question from the beautiful men at The Good Men Project.

Q:  Allana, my father just told me he is gay. I don’t care, I love him for being honest with himself; but, my mother, she is devastated. She keeps blaming herself and says she doesn’t know how to live her life without my father. What can I do?

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Tiny House versus Stable Marriage

I receive so many questions from my audience at The Good Men Project. Here is another…

Q:  Allana, how do you share a small space with another person without killing them? Seriously, that’s my question. My wife wants to try a tiny house, and I just don’t see how two people can live on top of each other without losing their sh!t.

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Losing My Wife. Is It Too Late?

Wanted to share one of my favorites from The Good Men Project:

Q:  Allana, I don’t know for sure but I think my wife is going to leave me. I will admit, I haven’t been the best husband. And while I have always provided for my family, I have put work before being present. Now that the kids are grown and out of the house, there is so much distance between us. I feel as if I realized this too late and I have lost her. How can I win her back? How can I save my marriage?

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Hot Dating Rituals!

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To Date You, I Give Up Me

This question came from one of my glorious audience members at MeetMindful:

Question: Allana, I lose myself when I date someone! What is it going to take for my life to thrive with a partner?  Read More →

Boyfriend STILL talks to Ex…

Q: Allana, my boyfriend still talks to his ex. They say they are just friends but it still makes me jealous. Should I give him an ultimatum or should I learn to accept that this is OK? Is it now the norm to keep in touch with your ex’s?

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