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Allana, what is your view on “The Prenup” Relationship Contract

Question: Allana, what do you think of the Prenup Relationship Contract?

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Doubting Forever with my Marriage

Q: I have been married for one year and while I love my husband, the reality of “forever” is starting to kick in. Is this normal? I am starting to have doubts, can I do this? It’s only been one a year of marriage?

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I Want Kids, He Doesn’t

Q: My husband and I are about to celebrate our 10 year anniversary. For a decade, it has just been the two of us which has been great but I am starting to feel an emptiness. We talked about getting a pet but I think I want to add children. Neither of us wanted kids before but things change, people change, I changed. How do ease someone into a conversation like that?

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Allana, He Changed His Mind About Marriage.

Question: He talked about marrying me for the longest time but suddenly he feels that he is too damaged to marry again due to his past divorce. WHY would he switch on me like that?

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Friend, Lover, Married! Help!

Question:  I have a guy friend that is my best friend. And he’s having a rocky relationship in his marriage…we have gotten together. I have been single for nine years. How can I be nice and just let it go? I keep communicating this with him and he’s not listening!!  Read More →

Can’t Pry my Wife Away from Kids for Intimacy

Q: Allana, my wife is incredible. She does so much for our family that I would love to do something for her. Unfortunately, I can’t pry her away from the kids long enough to spend an intimate, relaxing day out by herself. How can I convince her that she needs to take care of herself?

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