Archive for marriage

Post Pregnancy Body Turns Off Husband

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Q: My husband is no longer sexually attracted to me. I gained a few pounds with our little girl and he is used to my pre-pregnancy body. How can I be in a marriage if my husband is not attracted to me?

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Getting Married Again. Is Fourth Time a Charm?

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Q: In 14 years, I have been married three times. The first marriage only lasted because we had a child. I couldn’t get out of the second fast enough. We won’t even discuss #3. I think I have met husband # 4 but I am guarded. How do I know all of these failed marriages aren’t my fault – what if #4 is already doomed before it even starts?

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What Do You Do When One Wants Divorce and One Doesn’t?

A delicious question from my Good Men Project Audience!

Q:  Allana, if one person wants a divorce and the other person doesn’t, what do you do? The marriage is clearly over but the husband just won’t let go and move on.

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I Think He Has Fallen Out of Love. How Can I tell?

You asked, “Allana, how do I know if he has fallen out of love with me?”

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What Are Ways To Spice Up My Marriage and My Sex Life?

You asked Coach Allana, “How can I become more into my sex life and make my hubby happy?”
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Feel Like a Common Law Wife but Zero Benefits!

Q:   My mister and I have been together for over seven years. We raise two inspiring boys and have a supportive, healthy, honest relationship. My only hangup: marriage has become a huge point of contention between us. We talk about it from time to time, but it almost always escalates to arguing. I want to feel complete and happy without a ring, but I’m having a hard time not taking it personally. I want to accept the present moment, but I don’t want to let go of my dream. Help!
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