Archive for marriage

Sexually Abused Spouse. How Can I Be Supportive?

Question: My wife suffered from sexual abuse as a child, and while she’s been fine most of our marriage, suddenly she’s developed panic attacks when we make love. How can I help her through this?

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Dream of Marriage…Dread Commitment!

Fear of committment
Q: You asked Allana, “I have a problem with commitment but I would love to be married some day. How on earth can I find the one if I don’t want to settle down?”
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My Father is Gay, My Mother is Devastated.

Another question from the beautiful men at The Good Men Project.

Q:  Allana, my father just told me he is gay. I don’t care, I love him for being honest with himself; but, my mother, she is devastated. She keeps blaming herself and says she doesn’t know how to live her life without my father. What can I do?

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Is it wrong to have a one night stand?

Question: Is it wrong to have a one night stand or affair? Read More →

Allana, what is your view on “The Prenup” Relationship Contract

Question: Allana, what do you think of the Prenup Relationship Contract?

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Doubting Forever with my Marriage

Q: I have been married for one year and while I love my husband, the reality of “forever” is starting to kick in. Is this normal? I am starting to have doubts, can I do this? It’s only been one a year of marriage?

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